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Around Okanogan, WA

Cat | News | Wednesday, November 28th, 2012

I’ll post more pics later from Omak and Tonasket, but for now will add a quick plug for the The Salmon Creek Coffee Company in Okanogan, WA. This small coffee shop had organic coffees and teas, had gluten free lunch items (rare!), and the staff were super friendly.
Salmon Creek Coffee Company
134 S 2nd Ave, Okanogan, WA 98840
Phone: (509) 826-1533


On the drive from Twisp to Okanogan – gorgeous blue skies out one direction


And out the other window, super smokey skies from nearby forest fires

On the way between Seattle and Twisp (100 NE of Seattle) is the tiny town of Marblemount, WA – the self described “Gateway to the American Alps.” Technically Marblemount might not even be a town, it’s a “census-designated place (CDP) in Skagit County” with a population of 203 people. My friend Steve hails from Marblemount and I was so excited to finally pass through town that I decided to stop for lunch.

Que Car BBQ
http://www.quecarbbq.com/
Marblemount, WA
I went to the Que Car BBQ, located in a restored 1944 caboose, just off the side of the highway. For $7.25 you can get a great lunch with tasty BBQ smoked on site. Also, there was a little helper maybe 7 years old with some of the best manners I’ve ever seen on a child. And while you wait to pick up your order, you can sit on the picnic benches and enjoy the mountain views surrounding town. Recommended!

The mountain hamlet of Twisp, WA

Cat | News,Photos,United States | Thursday, September 20th, 2012

My September work trip took me into Okanogan County to visit the towns of Twisp, Okanogan, and Tonasket. All three are quite small but have lots of great community organizations doing important work. The visit was brief given work/life time constraints, but it definitely makes me want to go back for a social visit to explore on my own.

Twisp, WA is in the mountains and forest, has less than 1,000 people, and has great hiking in the summer and world class cross country skiing in the winter. (Apparently many Olympians come from Twisp and/or retire to Twisp). The town also has a delightful little new hotel right on the river, a pub, a bakery, natural foods coop, a couple of other bars and cafes, many artists studios, yoga, and two playhouses. I was thoroughly impressed with their hippy flavor and cultural offerings, especially for such a small town! (My father grew up in a town of a similar size in the rural midwest and his town of under 1,000 people didn’t have any artists studios on main street, no theatres, no yoga, no natural foods coops. Neat to see what a small community can support (in addition to the agriculture, the feed store, and the hardware shop they also rely on).

Tappi (Italian restaurant)
201 S Glover St
Twisp, WA 98856
(509) 997-3345
http://www.tappitwisp.com
You don’t always expect to find fancy-ish restaurants in tiny towns, but Tappi’s is famously good rustic Italian dining with a friendly owner in a small, cozy setting. While the menu was small, they did have a few meat, salad, and polenta options for gluten free people like me. (If they could substitute in a gluten free pasta into a couple of their dishes then I’d be even more excited).

Twisp River Suites

140 Twisp River Road Twisp, WA 98856
(509) 997-0100
www.twispriversuites.com
Brand new hotel offers many comforts, right in town overlooking the river. They offer fully equipped kitchens, in-suite washer/dryers, a lovely breakfast, occasional live music, and a great patio with heaters so you can enjoy the gorgeous scenery all around.


Hotel


View from my room

Cinnamon Twisp
116 North Glover Street Twisp, WA 98856
(509) 997-5030
www.cinnamontwisp.com
When I asked friends on Facebook what I should do in Twisp, the answer was overwhelmingly votes for hiking and for visiting the bakery! I was there for all day work meetings, so I didn’t have time for hiking. However, I did make time to stop by there to pick up a chocolately oat bar – yum! Highly recommended, especially for people who can eat wheat!

Blue Star Coffee Roasters

3 Twisp Airport Road Twisp, WA 98856
(509) 997-2583
www.bluestarcoffeeroasters.com
The national Coffee Fest 2012 competition picked Twisp’s Blue Star Coffee Roasters as America’s Best Espresso based on flavor complexity, mouthfeel and appeal, and aftertaste. I drank it while in town and picked up some from their roasting HQ to take home with me.

Twisp River Pub & Brewery
State Route 20 Twisp, WA 98856
(509) 997-6822
www.methowbrewing.com
The Twisp River Pub was the source of two of my meals while in town, has frequent live music, and was definitely the most happening place around. The food was well praised by my companions and their beers were popular. (My view was a bit skewed… their menu was pretty limited for a gluten free person who doesn’t drink beer (even their pad thai used wheat noodles and even their tacos used flour tortillas). I’ll withhold judging them (either good or bad), but suspect they’d be great for people who aren’t me. With a few tweaks of their menu, it’d be lovely.


Giant awesome public art in Twisp, WA


Giant awesome public art in Twisp, WA

Port Townsed, WA

Cat | News,United States | Thursday, August 2nd, 2012

My work travels are bringing me to the beautiful, seaside village of Port Townsend for three days. It’s quite pretty any day of the year, surrounded by water, and even more gorgeous in the summer. Not much time for sightseeing since I’m working long days, so my trip report is brief so far. Spent some time this evening wandering downtown and uptown, and walked along the waterfront as well. Enjoyed great views and a few live bands doing a free concert in a downtown waterfront park.

The Cup
-A breakfast and lunch diner with history and nice views. Lunches around $10-12.
464 West Sims Way
Port Townsend, WA 98368
(360) 379-9059

The Bayview Cafe
-Another diner with history and nice waterfront views. Lunches around $10.
1539 Water Street
Port Townsend, WA 98368
360-385-1461

Muskan Indian Food
-Home to seriously tasty palak paneer and enormous portion sizes compared to any place in Seattle (and only $10)! I had to stop myself from eating the whole entree as it was so delicious.
2330 Washington Street
Port Townsend, WA 98368
(360) 379-9275

Harborside Inn
-The Harborside Inn is a renovated motel on the waterfront in Port Townsend, with waterfront views of the fishing and sail boats in the marina.
330 Benedict Street
Port Townsend, WA 98368
(360) 385-7909

Enjoy a few quick pictures!


The WA State Ferry system hard at work


Legit fishing and crabbing town


View from my cheap hotel room isn’t too shabby

Welcome to Kansas City, Missouri!

Cat | News,United States | Sunday, May 20th, 2012

Last week I was in Kansas City for a work trip. Can’t say I was super excited about the location when first announced, but I’m here to say publicly that Kansas City exceeded expectations. Count me among the many from our group that were pleasantly surprised. There were lots of sites I wanted to visit but couldn’t fit in since I was there for work, but we did make it out for a few dinners and a ballgame too.

Jack Stack BBQ at the Freight House
101 W 22nd, Kansas City 64108
My friend Sarah Kim grew up in KC and suggested this place. I had the “burnt ends” brisket and sausage (so I could compare to the Salt Lick from Austin) and thought both were tasty. I also had to try their “famous” carrot cake and thought it was great. My server wasn’t too great (bad attitude, forgetful, no follow through), but the meal made up for it. I was lucky to go solo on Sunday when I was able to get a table without reservations and without a wait. My friends who went on Monday and Tuesday arrived to find 1-2 hour waits. Popular place! Combo platter with two meats and two sides was $14.

The Flying Saucer
101 E 13th St, Kansas City, MO
We were in town during Craft Beer week, so this place seemed like a good option. They had lots of local beers available, as well as tons of cider, beer sampler flights, etc. Dinner was sandwiches or German brawts (gluten free!). Was jealous of the gluten eaters who could do the giant pretzels or pretzel sandwiches that got rave reviews from our crowd. Reminded me how affordable the midwest can be… entrees were under $10 and my cider was only $3! Huge props to our fantastic server who dealt with our very large group (30+ people), did individual bills without hesitation, and was friendly and efficient throughout.

Silver Spoon Cafe
120 W. 12th St. (Entrance on Wyandotte between 11th and 12th St.)
The Silver Spoon Cafe has two locations in downtown Kansas City and they offer a variety of breakfast and lunch options for dine-in or carry-out, all meals seemingly under $5. The women on staff were quick, friendly, and knew almost all clients by name. By my second morning there, they even knew my order without me having to say it. :)

Cosentino’s Market Downtown
10 East 13th Street, Kansas City, MO 64106-2924, (816) 595-0050
We got lunch daily from Cosentino’s Market Downtown. It was really terrific to have a grocery store right in the middle of downtown, complete with a huge hot buffet line, hot sandwich line, salad bar, espresso, gelato, fruit, etc. It was fast, affordable, tasty, and easy to take “to do” so we could eat outside in the park.

Gordon Biersch Kansas City
On Tuesday we decided to wander down to the newly renovated Power and Light District. It seems to be lots of chain restaurants and bars and it was happening. The Gordon Biersch menu looked the same as it does in Seattle. Their fish tacos, homemade veggie burger, and burger with blue cheese and bacon all got rave reviews from our table. Props to this chain for offering low-cal menu sections and low-cal drinks (even if we ignored them!).

ingredient restaurant
1111 Main St Kansas City, MO 64105
816-994-3350
ingredient restaurant boasts fresh ingredients and custom made salads, sandwiches, or salads with a sensitivity to food allergies. I had their gluten free pizza of the day + half salad for $8. Hooray for their good GF pizza crust that was soft (hard, brittle, or crumbly like many)!

Kansas City Royals baseball at Kauffman Stadium
We had great tickets for the Royals vs Baltimore Orioles… $29 tickets for $15 (group rate, no fees). We were very near the field, the stadium had entertaining food options (like the brisketacho!), was nicely renovated with LED lit fountains, etc. I also enjoyed their on-screen antics like the Kiss Cam (which resulted in lots of cuteness and only one eager dude who publicly got the hand) and crazy hair cam (which was a little questionable if feelings might be hurt, but did find lots of awesome hairdos, including the super smiley guy with awesome mullet who won a free haircut from a sponsor). Also, showed a video of Garth Brooks playing “Friends in Low Places” which got the whole stadium to it’s feet dancing and swinging beers from side to side (including yours truly). :)

Kansas City Marriott
The hotel has two historic properties connected by a skywalk, both overlooking a downtown park. We stayed here for work and was impressed by their super low rates, nicely updated guest rooms, huge high ceiling lobbies, great fitness center with pool on 22nd floor, nice views of downtown, etc. They gave us all of our meeting rooms for free (since we had so many people in guest room). Only downsides were, like many big chain hotels, they charge $10/day for in-room internet and didn’t offer free continental breakfast.

Ralf & Karolin visits from Germany!

Cat | Namibia,News,United States | Wednesday, December 28th, 2011

Susie and I met Ralf when hitch hiking in Namibia in 2007 and I’ve stayed in touch with him ever since. This summer he came to visit Seattle from Germany and brought his wonderful girlfriend Karolin. They stayed with us and we had fun exploring town! It was really great to have them here and it was super fun to hear about life in Germany, the crazy karnival street party they go to each year, life after moving in together, their recent travels to Alaska, etc. I love having visitors!

We ate dim sum in the International District to introduce Ralf and Karolin to one of our vibrant neighborhoods with our large SE Asian community.
Jade Garden
424 7th Ave S Map
Seattle, WA 98104
(206) 622-8181

We also ate Ethiopian food one night to give them a flavor for one of our other large immigrant populations in town.
Ade Abeba Ethiopian Restaurant
2123 East Union Street, Seattle, WA
(206) 322-1617

I took Ralf and Karolin on their first kayaking trip and they were great sports! Very adventurous!
Agua Verde Cafe & Paddle Club
1303 Northeast Boat Street, Seattle, WA
(206) 545-8570 ‎
www.aguaverde.com

And we met up with Susie too and hit another local gem: ice cream at Molly Moon’s!
Molly Moon’s Homemade Ice Cream
917 East Pine Street, Seattle, WA
(206) 708-7947 ‎
www.mollymoonicecream.com


Me and Ralf goofing off


Karolin and David


Karolin and Ralf


Karolin had seen shows on German TV about Seattle’s famous houseboats so we went kayaking to get an up close view!


Me enjoying the adventure with friends!


Karolin & Ralf in front of the Sleepless in Seattle houseboat. The pic doesn’t do it justice… it’s a pretty blue with gorgeous flowing hanging baskets all over!


The oldest houseboat in Seattle… over 100 years old!

Back in Nairobi

Cat | News | Friday, May 14th, 2010

Hard to believe my two weeks in Kenya are almost up! I had an amazing trip to Malava… visited friends, had a dance party, visited schools, and saw some of my favorite kids from the St Julie Centre! I will post stories and pics in the coming weeks. For now, I’m back in Nairobi, printing pics for friends, and then heading out to Cape Town in less than 48 hours!

Traveling from Nairobi to Malava

Cat | Kenya,Kenya local travel,News | Monday, May 10th, 2010

My 12 hr bus trip to my village thru the Great Rift Valley was long but so scenic… 2 smoke alarm type sirens went off the whole way, but otherwise I love staring out the window at grazing zebras, crested cranes, roadside markets, and millions of flamingos turning the soda lakes pink.

Sacrifice the zebras

Cat | Kenya,News | Friday, February 12th, 2010

Kenya rounds up zebras for starving lions

Nairobi, Kenya (CNN) — Kenyan wildlife officials are ferrying thousands of zebras and wildebeest to a park in the country’s south to feed starving lions and hyenas, and prevent a conflict with humans.

The animals will be hauled from four locations to restock Amboseli National Park’s population, which lost 80 percent of its herbivores in a recent drought, said Kentice Tikolo, spokeswoman for the Kenya Wildlife Service.

“It was the worst drought in 26 years,” Tikolo said. “The Amboseli ecosystem was severely affected. … Lots of herbivores died, carnivores don’t have anything to feed on, and have been attacking neighboring livestock.”

The imbalance has sparked a row with villagers who lost animals in the drought and have threatened to kill lions and hyenas preying on remaining livestock.

Should the zebras be brought in to help the lions?

“There are only 2,000 lions left nationwide, and we are concerned because the numbers are dropping,” the spokeswoman said.

“Maasais are getting angry and threatening to spear them — the human versus wildlife conflict is getting out of hand — and our carnivores are already greatly endangered.”

About 4,000 zebras and 3,000 wildebeest will be transferred to Amboseli. The zebras will go first. The wildebeest will follow, after calving season, Tikolo said. Once at Amboseli, they’re expected to breed and sustain the lions over the long term.

Shipping the animals from Soysambu Conservancy in the Rift Valley and three other nearby locations will cost about $ 1.4 million, according to Tikolo.

The animals are herded into a funnel-shape enclosure using helicopters and loaded into trucks to Amboseli. From there, they are released into the wild, she said.

Tourism is the second-largest source of foreign exchange in the east African nation. About 20 percent of the income comes from tourism, with Amboseli as the second -highest earner, Tikolo said

Lions are among the big five — the list of top wildlife tourist attractions in the nation. Others are elephants, leopards, rhinos and buffalo.

South Africa Travel Advice

Cat | News,South Africa | Saturday, January 16th, 2010

I’ve spoken with a handful of people lately who are heading to South Africa who wanted travel advice… two different groups I met are going for World Cup games, and the adventuring Dougli are going to visit friends. These conversations inspired me to put some of my own trip notes into a more organized (and hopefully useful) format. I spent a week in Joburg in July 2006 and then returned to South Africa for almost a month in January-February 2007 to explore more of the country. Read on in this post for logistics info and sights visited. Remember that prices listed were from my time there in 2006/2007, and may have changed since then. For more stories of our personal adventures, use the South Africa tags or categories on the right column to find posts and pictures from our adventure. Enjoy! Love, Cat

I. Before you go
A. Recommended viewing:
“Tsotsi” won the 2005 Oscar for Best Foreign Language Film of the Year

B. Recommended reading:

  • Nelson Mandela’s “Long Walk to Freedom.”
  • Disgrace, by JR Cotzee. Only read it if you’re ready for a “willfully painful” book. Working-out of personal and political shame and responsibility. Also concerned with his country’s history, brutalities, and betrayals. Also intent on what measure of soul and rights we allow animals.
  • Barbara Trapido’s Frankie and Stankie, a girlish ‘memoir’ of apartheid South Africa. Not the most powerful book, but good intro to SA.

C. Transport Options

  • Rental Cars – We used Budget Rent A Car. Driving from place to place gave us the flexibility to move when we want to which was an incredible gift. It also puts us closer to life on the road, which includes dodging all matter of obstacles on the road – cattle, goats, sheep, people, the occasional pig and even a monkey here and there. We came out mostly unscathed with the exception of one incident with kamikaze sheep. Note: if you hit anything, it’s the farmer/shepherd’s fault since they should pay better attention to the animals.
  • Baz bus (tourist bus) – delivers to the major hostels in each spot along the coast between Joburg and Cape Town
  • Local buses – small, cheap, crowded, used primarily by locals
  • Tourist buses – super nice with hot cocoa service, sleeper seats, movies, etc. www.intercape.co.za
  • Internal flights on airlines like Mango – www.flymango.com

D. Food
1. Biltong – beef jerky – the South African equivalent (but it’s WAY better)
2. Braii (BBQ)
3. Ostrich – As a former vegetarian, I had to re-learning everything about meat after avoiding it for 10-15 years. Ostrich meat is way leaner than beef and is way better for you. Happily, it actually tastes better than cow meat too. So if you haven’t tried an ostrich fillet lately, I highly recommend it.

E. Accommodation
Coast to Coast http://www.coastingafrica.com
There’s a free 300 page book called Coast to Coast that lists a full page on each (that is willing to pay) and it’s got more detail than Lonely Planet ever will. It’s also now online!

F. Developed
I’ll admit my ignorance and be honest with you: I wasn’t expecting to arrive from the village in Kenya and find Johannesburg quite so developed. Make no mistakes… South Africa is definitely a first world/developed country and Joburg is a world class city. In Joburg you can eat Thai, sushi, or Greek food all on one city block, and follow those with happy hours anywhere you like. There are coffee shops, pastry shops, dance clubs, hip bars, cute boutiques, art galleries, and street vendors selling crafts.

II. Johannesburg
We stayed with friends in a beautiful part of town called Melville.
A. City Living
I came to SA straight from the Kenyan village and all of the little “city living” things we took for granted in the US were pretty outstanding for me.
1. Book reading by a best selling South Africa author
2. Amazing jazz concert – Free concert series at University of Witwatersrand – Johannesburg campus
3. Art opening of a new photo exhibit at a downtown gallery in Standard Bank
4. Wandered a Sunday market near the local mall… so many homemade crafts and homemade clothes
5. Indie record stores like Canned Applause in Melville – For all your import and indie needs! We walked inside and I was absolutely stunned to see Shins t-shirts, Sub-pop posters, Postal Service CDs, ACL Fest DVDs, and more. Want to check out some South African indie bands? Try the Dirty Skirts or Eyes Wide Open.

B. Apartheid Museum
Can horrify you. Some of the photos, especially the ones by Peter Magubane, made me cry. The propaganda films pissed me off. And the whole of it made me ashamed to be white, even if I wasn’t in on the British or Dutch oppression of the black African people.
C. Hector Pieterson Museum and Memorial
Named for the 13 year old boy who was among the first killed by police in the 1976 student uprising in Soweto. The museum shares first hand accounts of brutality and uprising from students, parents, politicians, and journalists who were there. Incredibly moving personal stories, films, and photos of the revolution.
D. African Footprint
Musical in a fancy theatre that tells South Africa’s history through two hours of singing and dance, from native dance to 1950s jazz. Was fun, but could’ve skipped if we wanted to save money.
E. Constitution Hill
One of the closed down prisons where Nelson Mandela was kept as a political prisoner is now open as a museum where horror stories abound. The site also hosts the new building for South Africa’s highest court of law and has exhibits about Mandela. Free tours of both.
F. Maropeng – the Cradle of Humanity
Maropeng is outside Joburg by a few hours and very worth the car rental/drive. Perhaps the best/most progressive museum I’ve ever visited. Hidden behind a big hill is a new, gorgeous museum with the history of mankind, much of which is based off of fossilized apes and humans found in the area, pretty much the oldest in the world.

Museum had lots of great historical info, original fossils, and hands on displays for kids and adults both. Beyond the normal stuff, they went a step further to discuss sustainability, present socially relevant facts, and ask what we can do to preserve our world. Super progressive minded museum! One of the many scary facts I learned: 25% of the earth’s mammals are predicted to be extinct in 30 years! Another scary idea that I knew but really sinks in more here… we’re likely on our way to the sixth great extinction, and ours will be the first caused by us instead of being caused by nature (no more volcano problems, none of this ‘earth hit by asteroid wiping out the dinosaurs’ type of extinctions that have happened in the past).

G. Soweto – Africa’s largest black city, site of 1976 student protests that began the fall of apartheid, home to the only street in the world to have housed two Nobel Peace Prize winners, ex-president Nelson Mandela and Archbishop Desmond Tutu.
Soweto is South Africa’s largest black township with a population of about 3.5 million. (Ie. The British government kicked the Africans off their land and sent them to small, restricted bits of lands… just like the Americans did to the Native Indians who were the original inhabitants of North America). These black townships were low income housing at best, slums at worse. Moving people to Soweto didn’t silenced the black Africans. Soweto was home to many activists who helped bring an end to apartheid, is famous for the student uprisings in 1976, and one Soweto street holds claim to the title “only street in the world to have two Nobel Peace Prize winners, ex-president Nelson Mandela and Archbishop Desmond Tutu.”
Soweto today is home to 3 million people who speak 13 languages as well as s’camto, a street language. It houses Chris Hani Baragwanath Hospital, the largest hospital in the southern hemisphere with 6,000 beds and some of the most sophisticated medical facilities in the world. Opposite the hospital is Africa’s largest taxi rank from which 10,000 vehicles depart daily. Despite an unemployment rate estimated at 45% there are many informal businesses such as roadside garages, butcheries, exhaust repairs, barber shops, spaza shops (basic groceries), shebeens (unlicensed taverns), payphones and roadside kitchens, amongst others.
Soweto came to the world’s attention on June 16, 1976 with the Soweto Riots, when student protests erupted over the government’s policy to enforce education in Afrikaans rather than English. Police opened fire on 10,000 students in a peaceful march and among the first to die was 13 year old Hector Pieterson. 566 people died, and there are many chilling videos and photos documenting the struggle at the Hector Pieterson museum and the Apartheid Museum. The impact of the Soweto protests reverberated through the country and across the world. In their aftermath, economic and cultural sanctions were introduced from abroad. Political activists left the country to train for guerrilla resistance. Soweto and other townships became the stage for violent state repression. These events, spurred on in large part by the first student protests, helped bring the eventual end to apartheid in the 1990s.

III. Durban
Translux bus from Joburg to Durban – 100R ($15), left at 8:30am arrived at 4pm. We’ve moved around a bit while here to experience different parts of town… city centre, north beach, and south beach.
A. Banana Backpackers, city centre
Near wide selection of massage parlors and escort agencies. Not classy, but totally acceptable. 100R per person per night to share a double bed. Kitchen, TV, laundry, courtyard, 10 minute walk to the beach, free local calls
B. Umdholti Resort, in Umdholti, a beach town about 15km north of Durban
Cost for us: free (gift of a stranger!). Usually $100+.
Upscale resort town, mostly time shares and condos
Time share unit was on the beach, has private kitchen, bath, 4 beds, tv, seafront balcony, pool, bbq pits, etc. Wow! Is near Umhlanga (an upscale town with Thai food, sushi, Italian, etc) and Ballito.
C. Anstey’s Backpackers, 10 minutes south of Durban on the beach
Camping costs 40R per person. Surfboard rentals, pool, internet, TV, great balconies, book exchange, free coffee and tea, nicest kitchen I’ve seen in any hostel anywhere in the world. The staff were super cool, informative, opinionated, and full of personality. Only 30 meters/1 minute from the beach, cafes, pub, etc.

D. The Bat Centre – art galleries and free live music on Fridays and Sundays at
E. Free art museum
F. Free Natural Science Museum (nicer than Kenya’s and you save $10!)
G. relaxed at the pool
H. swam in the ocean,
I. cheap internet (6R per hour is way better than Melville’s 35R for 45 minutes).
J. Monkey memories
We stayed at a condo in Durban on the very first week of our South African adventure and there were “Beware of monkeys” signs posted about, with warnings to leave doors and windows closed when you were away. The monkeys weren’t opposed to getting in your room and stealing from you. We didn’t have any force their way into our room, but definitely had to guard our stuff down at the pool where the monkeys were running all over and grabbing drinks and snacks sitting next to sun bathers or under lawn chairs.

IV. The Wild Coast
South Africa has a lot of coastline, so each section gets its own name. We drove through the Hibiscus Coast, the South Coast, the Wild Coast, the Garden Route, etc. To say the scenery is stunning is a huge understatement – we have seen a huge range of landscape here – from dunes meeting rivers meeting the ocean, wide swaths of low bushes, old deciduous forests, to unbelievable rocky coastlines.
A. Hiking at the Oribi Gorge (10R).
We left the N2 Highway and had to head down dirt roads littered with lots of small huts, cows, sheep, goats, horses, and dogs roaming free. It felt like we were driving through Smurf villages. I was excited to get into the Xhosa land of mud huts with thatched roofs, but wasn’t expecting them to be painted such great blues, greens, and pinks. How delightful!


View from our tent at the Coffee Shack

B. Coffee Shack Backpackers (40R camp)
happening place! Waterfront lot, hammocks, board games, fire pits, gorgeous bathrooms, etc. The hostel seemed to be the main attraction.


Day hike through villages near Hole in the Wall

C. Hole In The Wall Backpackers (40R camp)
Connected to a hotel, so can accommodate any price range or privacy comfort levels.
Hiking – The hostel was lovely, but the main attraction was nature. We did lovely day hikes around the coast, swimming, saw a beautiful ‘hole in the wall’ rock formation. Great memories from those hikes.

V. The hamlet of Hogsback
We traveled inland to Hogsback, an area that claims to be an inspirational place where Tolkein got his ideas to write Lord of the Rings. The forests are lush and deep, full of butterflies, giant trees, waterfalls, and plenty of ornate spider webs.

A. Away With The Fairies Backpackers (45R camp)
Lovely, laid back space, nice communal dinners prepared for you. Hostel had lots of common rooms, a crazy pool, and even a giant tree you could climb to get to the very high up tree house! Recommended!
B. Hiking
The hostel has free maps for hiking… we did a 8 km hike through the mountains that supposedly inspired J.R.R. Tolkien to write Lord of the Rings. Great waterfalls, big trees, nice folks, and lots of local legends.
C. Visit The Edge
A nearby labyrinth overlooking the valley below. Free, beautiful, zen.

VI. The Sunshine Coast
A. Addo Elephant National Park (20R)
Cheapest, self guided safari you could imagine, and you get SUPER close to the animals. Honestly, we had elephants come within one foot of the car. Amazing!
The original Elephant section of the park was proclaimed in 1931, when only eleven elephants remained in the area – today this finely tuned ecosystem is sanctuary to over 450 elephants, Cape buffalo, black rhino, a variety of antelope species, as well as the unique flightless dung beetle, found almost exclusively in Addo. The Big 7 (Elephant, rhino, lion, buffalo, leopard, whales and great white sharks) in their natural habitat.

B. Stayed at Orange Elephant Backpackers (30R camp)
A rather odd backpackers with no common room, but the kitchen was well stocked and the bathrooms were nice. Oh, and instead of a pool, they had a trampoline. Restaurant/bar maybe functioned as common room – meals were fine and they had books/games. The hostel wasn’t anything to write home about, but the proximity to the park was perfect.

VII. The Garden Route/Plettenburg Bay
A. Monkeyland (90R student price)
“Monkeyland is the worlds first free roaming multi-specie primate sanctuary. Monkeyland has as one of its aims, to create awareness about the plight of primates and to show that with a greater understanding of our primate cousins, that we can all live in harmony.” So fun!

B. Albergo for Backpackers (50R camp)
Nice space. Has a pool table, free coffee and tea, tv and dvd, a bbq/braai pit, decent kitchen, clean bathrooms, internet, breakfast lounge, and outdoor tables. Not bad for $6, eh?
C. Tsitsikamma National Park
We took a gorgeous drive through/around Tsitsikamma National Park, but it was raining pretty hard so we didn’t do the hiking and adventuring we were hoping to do.
D. Monkey Memories
Monkey hijinks hit an all time high at MonkeyLand in Pletts. I guess it shouldn’t be a surprise that a sanctuary for monkeys would hold lots of trouble makers. They had staff with water bottles to squirt the meddling monkeys and they carried big sticks (not to whack the monkeys, but to make scary noise). The monkeys weren’t deterred. They were stealing from the cafe (I thwarted the attempted of Tarzan by scaring him in the cafe), stealing from us at our picnic table (one monkey got Susie’s Sprite, but didn’t fare well attempting to use her straw), and we heard the fabulous tale of a monkey in the gift shop who showed up with a stick of his own to show the security folks he knew their game.

VIII. Oudtshoorn
The capital of ostrich breeding business since the 1800s – highly recommended!
A. “Backpackers Paradise”
My vote hands down for the best hostel in all of South Africa. Well appointed place with great open space, multiple well stocked kitchens, multiple TV rooms, multiple sitting rooms with couches and chairs, free coffee and tea, internet café, prepared meals, braai nightly (aka BBQ), swimming pool, bar and pool table, amazing staff, book exchange, and even visitors books for offering advice to other travelers. Amazing!
B. Ostriches!
I’d once read a passage in a book about “how to ride an ostrich” and decided seeing an ostrich farm would be one of the sillier “can’t miss” opportunities in life.
Take a tour of the Safari Ostrich Farm. We learned the history (still active since the 1800s!), saw the farm, got a 75% discount from our hostel (only 24R!), and even got to see jockeys doing ostrich racing! Not only that, but they let 3-4 lucky participants each tour get a FREE OSTRICH RIDE! I highly recommend $3.50 for an ostrich tour and free ride. Quite worth the trip!

C. Meerkat Magic!
I fell in love with meerkats after National Geographic published an amazing photo essay a few years back and have been a big fan ever since. As you know, meerkats are only found in one place in the world – sub Saharan Africa. And as I found out this week, there’s only one program in the world that lets you go out into their natural habitat with a conservation program – Meerkat Magic. It has to be a sunny day, and you have to put up with the somewhat crazy man who leads the tours, but I was more than happy to fork over hundreds of rand for the experience. I wanted to see them in person and wanted to learn more too. While Grant the guide was a bit of a crazy man, you’ve got to respect his ideals and the program he works with. They’re the only meerkat conservation program worldwide that leaves the meerkats in their natural habitat and doesn’t domesticate them by handling them or feeding them.
We got up and drove to the meeting place at 4:45am, made it out to the conservation site by 5:15am, and then hiked out to one of the 60+ boroughs by 5:45am. Then our lessons began. Did you know the meerkat is a tiny rodent, just larger than a rat, and their closest relative is the mongoose? Did you know they dig with sharp claws into the ground to hunt for insects?
Grant shares pictures. (Guests are forbidden from taking pictures as the organization needs the film revenue to help fund their conservation work and rely on BBC, National Geographic, etc.

IX. Route 62 through wine country
We decided to skip the rest of the garden route and stay in-land. It was totally the right decision for us. R62 is the “longest wine route in the world.” The drive was hot in January (37C is about 106F) but we slathered on more sunscreen and enjoyed the stunning mountain views.

A. Swartburg Pass
First stop on route 62 was the winding gravel road of Swartburg Pass – one of the “most spectacular passes in Africa” with views of the Matjies River valley. Scary and impressive.

B. Ladismith
From there we headed on back roads and more gravel to Ladismith. Not much there except a fabulous stop at a cheese and ice cream factory (yum!), but both of us were big Paul Simon fans and Ladysmith Black Mambazo fans, and that was enough to make excited about driving through the town of Ladysmith.

C. Warmwaterberg Spa
Hot springs between Barrydale and Ladismith at Warmwaterberg Spa. We went to a cool old resort called Warmwaterberg Spa (established in 1886 with three outdoor “Roman bathing pools” overlooking the gorgeous surrounding mountains and valleys. The 41C hot mineral water was fabulous, the setting amazing, and my head spinning. Germans apparently rate these among the top three hot springs in the world for their heat and mineral content… among other things they’ve got low levels of sulfur and high levels of lithium.

D. Robertson
Robertson – a small town in the Breede River Valley with wine, roses, and race horses. It’s nestled into the most gorgeous purple hills imaginable and has about 10% of SA’s vineyards, and amazing hiking opportunities.
1. Hiking
We spent a day at a local nature reserve and did a great, easy trail up to the edge of the mountains followed by an hour long rock scramble. Our goal was swimming in the many small rock pools and the bigger waterfall at the end. The water was quite chilly, the dip in the pools was refreshing and the views and rock formations were gorgeous. We heard about the hike courtesy of Robertson’s Backpackers.
2. Robertson’s Backpackers Hostel
Another in a line of very impressive hostels where we camped. Among its unique amenities included local wines, gorgeous bathrooms, eclectic original artwork around the house, and most interestingly a Moroccan lounge and hookah bar. We decided to peruse their video library and opted for a late night showing of the Breakfast Club on VHS.

E. Stellenbosch
Stellenbosch, the heart of South Africa’s wine country. Stellenbosch is actually SA’s second oldest city and vineyards were first planted there in the 1600s. With our luck we not only arrived on a Wednesday (the most happening day of the week). it was a college town with lots of bars (lower drinking age + 17,000 college students + wine country = party time in Stellenbosch).

1. Cellar tour at Die Bergkelder
Tunneled into the slopes of the Papegaaiberg mountain. We did all of the tour’s samplings there and both ended up tipsy before 11am. Some of the best wines I’ve ever had: Fleur de Cap.
2. Jordan Winery in Stellenbosch
Very laid back winery, much like you’d find in Washington’s wine country near Seattle or near Walla Walla (it’s sold in the States under the Jardin label).
3. Vrede en Lust Winery in Franschhoek
Vrede en Lust was the classiest winery I’ve ever seen, way fancier than Napa Valley. (They host weddings and cater to a rich foreign clientele). We picked Vrede en Lust because they also hosted a cheese and olive products shop onsite, as well as beautiful grounds and guest cottages. Little did we know the woman behind the counter would be so amazing… from advice on wines and local history to tattoo shops in Cape Town and gourmet dinner recommendations in nearby Paarl town.

4. Dinner at Noop
Most amazing dinner I’d had in recent years. Noop is a tiny artsy gourmet restaurant connected to a coffee shop and florist. The funky feel was very Seattle though the gourmet food quality was decidedly New York or Houston. Our bread, main meal, giant decadent dessert, coffee, and truffles only came to $11 each. Wow!
5. Stumble Inn Hostel
We stayed at the Stumble Inn, a packed, very popular hostel right in the middle of town. All of the beds and rooms were sold out, but we had Susie’s tent and they still had room for us. Young-ish crowd.

X. Cape Town

We returned our rental car in Cape Town to save money and went back to public transit (slow, but it got us door to door). We stayed with friends, but many folks we met recommended Long Street Backpackers. We spent a fair amount of time at the beach, shopping, and eating. My goal was to get there in time for the Cape Town Pride celebrations, a Pride parade, and a rocking Pride street party.

A. Robben Island
Tour of the prison island where Nelson Mandela and other freedom fighters were jailed. All tour groups led by former inmates. Powerful.
B. Long Street and Green Market Square – wander aimlessly
C. Hiked Table Mountain.
Even the “easiest” routes are supposed to be ‘difficult and hair raising’ and the guard at the bottom told us it can be full of bandits who jump out of the bushes and mug you at knife point (they apparently can’t use guns because guns cause rock slides). We had no muggings, no baboon attacks, not even sore muscles. The views were gorgeous and the other people hiking were super fun and social. We even had a new friend Andy join us for the hike, a 60+ year old Brit. The hike was a bit harder than he initially expected, but he did great and bought us drinks at the top to thank us for “taking care of him.”
D. We drove a loop around the Cape
Started in Big Bay, then into town through Table Mountain National Park, then out to a arts and craft market at Hout Bay, lunch on a farm (can’t remember where), back home for a late dinner. Sadly, we didn’t have time to go all the way south to Cape Point.

We were super sad to leave and miss the rest of South Africa, but wanted to get up to Namibia to check out the desert and sand dunes and continue the adventure!

The End!

News: Kenya fishermen see upside to pirates: more fish

Cat | Kenya,News | Tuesday, January 12th, 2010

I visited Kenya’s coast twice (for two trips to Mombasa and Lamu), and went out on dhows to do deep sea fishing. I remember catching red snapper, leather fish, and a handful of others by tying fishing line to 6-8 in chunks of wood. Seems the pirates are scaring away commercial fishing vessels and the amount of fish off the coast is now soaring. Guess we’d call that a silver lining… funny world we live in.

Kenya fishermen see upside to pirates: more fish
By JASON STRAZIUSO, AP Writer
Jan 11, 12:32 AM EST

MALINDI, Kenya (AP) — People here have one thing to thank Somali pirates for: Better fishing.

In past years, illegal commercial trawlers parked off Somalia’s coast and scooped up the ocean’s contents. Now, fishermen on the northern coast of neighboring Kenya say, the trawlers are not coming because of pirates.

“There is a lot of fish now, there is plenty of fish. There is more fish than people can actually use because the international fishermen have been scared away by the pirates,” said Athman Seif, the director of the Malindi Marine Association.

On one early morning, as the sun bathed their wooden dhow in a pale yellow, four fishermen jumped out of their rickety 15-foot boat, grabbed a hand-woven straw basket and waded ashore. The basket held the bounty: 175 pounds (80 kilograms) of sailfish, barracuda and red snapper, the haul from a 12-hour night on the ocean. Each fisherman stood to make $12, enough in this town to be considered a decent night’s work.

Fishermen and sportsmen say they’ve been catching more fish than ever. Howard Lawrence-Brown, who owns Kenya Deep Sea Fishing, said fishing stocks over the last year have been up “enormously – across all species.”

“We had the best marlin season ever last year,” said Lawrence-Brown, who owns Kenya Deep Sea Fishing. “The only explanation is that somebody is not targeting them somewhere. … There’s definitely no question about it, the lack of commercial fishing has made a difference.”

Fishermen in the region have seen their incomes and quality of life rise. New boats and better equipment can be seen on the water.

In Malindi, a second-tier tourist town whose tastiest seafood restaurant is called “The Old Man and the Sea,” after the Ernest Hemingway novel, the income of many families is determined by the number of fish caught during a half-day’s turn at sea.

On a recent weekday, fisherman Abdi Ali said he has more money of late to send his kids to high school, which costs money in Kenya. As Ali spoke, a man nearby held up a 2.5-foot (.75-meter), 9-pound (4-kilo) red snapper to motorists on Malindi’s main oceanfront drive in hopes of enticing a sale.

“This year the amount of fish we have caught has been very good. We get about 150 kilograms to 200 and even 300 kilograms, depending on how much we fish,” said Ali. Three hundred kilograms is about 660 pounds.

“There were fish that had disappeared and have come back like the barracuda, oranda, red snapper and other types,” he said. “We are very happy now that there are so many fish.”

Fishermen in Somalia, too, say they’ve seen increased catches. Traders at a Mogadishu fish market are happy because more fish means lower prices, which means more Somalis can afford to buy.

“I remember some days I used to go to the sea early to catch fish and would return with no fish, but nowadays there are plenty. You can catch it everywhere,” said fisherman Bakar Osman, 50. “I do not know the reason but I think the foreign fishing vessels, which used to loot our fish, were scared away by pirates.”

Somali pirates have increased attacks the last two years because of the millions of dollars in ransom they can earn. They currently hold close to a dozen vessels and more than 200 crew hostage. Fishermen here acknowledge the horror of the attacks – they occasionally are harassed by pirates themselves.

Before the pirates came out in big numbers, fishing longliners roamed the coasts, Lawrence Brown said, laying out miles (kilometers) of line.

“They kill everything from the bottom of the ocean to the boat. They run at 22 knots. They can lay their lines for 24 hours, pick them up and get out of there,” he said. “The damage on the sports fishing side is immeasurable.”

A report on pirates this year by the S. Rajaratnam School of International Studies in Singapore said the value of illegal catches from Somalia’s maritime jurisdiction is estimated at between $90 million and $300 million a year, and that foreign fishing vessels hail from all around the world.

The report’s author, Clive Schofield, a research fellow with the Australian Centre for Ocean Resources and Security at the University of Wollongong, called it ironic that nations contributing warships to anti-piracy efforts are in some cases directly linked to the foreign fishing vessels “stealing Somalia’s offshore resources.”

“This situation has led some pirates to justify their actions on basis of illegal foreign fishing activities – styling themselves ‘coastguards’ and characterizing ransom demands as ‘fines,’” the report said. “Without condoning acts of violence at sea, it is clear that the Somalis who hijack shipping off their coast are in fact not the only ‘pirates’ operating in these waters,” it said.

Piracy has not had a huge effect on Kenya’s overall fishing industry, which is not very well developed on the coast, according to the permanent secretary for Kenya’s Ministry of Fisheries Development, Micheni Japhet Ntiba. Kenya has brought in between 5,000 and 7,000 metric tons of fish off its Indian Ocean coast each of the last several years, he said, less than a tenth of Kenya’s yearly catch from Lake Victoria, on Kenya’s western edge.

Piracy “is a negative thing for Kenya fisherman. It’s a negative thing for the Kenyan economy. It’s a negative thing for the western Indian Ocean economy,” Ntiba said. “What I think is important for us is to invest in security so the government and the private sector can invest in the deep sea ocean resources.”

Still, Kenya’s sports fisherman say the pirates appear to have had a hugely positive effect on their industry. Angus Paul, whose family owns the Kingfisher sports fishing company, said that over the past season clients on his catch-and-release sports fishing outings averaged 12 or 13 sail fish a day. That compares with two or three in previous years.

Somali pirates, Paul said, are a group of terrorists, “but as long as they can keep the big commercial boats out, not fishing the waters, then it benefits a lot of other smaller people.”

On the Net:

Kingfisher sports fishing: http://www.kenyasportfishing.net

Kenya Deep Sea Fishing: http://www.kenyadeepseafishing.net

c 2010 The Associated Press

News: Polygamy – Kenyans Speak Out

Cat | Kenya,News | Saturday, January 9th, 2010

Polygamy – Kenyans Speak Out
Daniel Wesangula
9 January 2010

Nairobi — South African President Jacob Zuma, 68, recently attracted the ire of human rights activists and religious leaders with his decision to marry his fifth wife.

Mr Zuma’s critics see the president as promoting polygamy, a practice they consider abusive to women, unChristian and culturally outdated.

“His marriage to a woman he is reported to have already fathered three children with is a giant step back into the dark ages,” said the Reverend Theunis Botha, leader of South Africa’s Christian Democratic Party.

Mr Zuma’s one-line defence, couched in tradition, bears a striking resemblance to those of other polygamists.

In Kenya, where a proposed marriage law has recently ignited debate around polygamy, the South African president would find himself in good company among political leaders and other influential people in society.

The Draft Marriage Bill 2007 seeks to give couples the legal option of polygamy. It defines marriage as the voluntary union of a man or woman intended to last for their lifetime and states that the marriage could be monogamous or polygamous provided the two parties are in agreement.

Lugari MP Cyrus Jirongo, who has three wives, says there is nothing wrong with the practice so long as the man “can comfortably provide for each one of them (the wives)”.

“They are what define us as a nation and as a civilisation. I grew up in a society in which polygamy was the only way to go,” said Mr Jirongo, adding that polygamy has made him a better man, a better husband and a better father.

“In short, it has made me a complete family man. And I am proud of it because all my wives understand me and understand each other. I’d prefer men to be more honest in their dealings with the opposite sex. I better have three women at home instead of running around with other people’s wives every evening. Look what happened to Bill Clinton and Tiger Woods.”

The former US president was embroiled in a scandal during his years in office over an affair with a White House intern named Monica Lewinsky.

Lately, golfing legend Tiger Woods, who had a squeaky clean image, took a huge beating from a revelations by a string of women claiming he had slept with them. The sex scandal has badly affected Woods’ public image and sporting career.

Former Butere MP Martin Shikuku, 77, said many people opposed to polygamy were simply aping alien cultures.

“Those who say it is bad should look within themselves and decide which Western cultures to follow. Some of them like monogamy are a sham, and we should be brave enough to reject them,” said Mr Shikuku, who declares himself a proud and unapologetic polygamist.

“There are millions of people around the world married to one spouse but still feel hollow inside. I have no regrets, I’m a polygamist and a very happy one.”

Three of Mr Shikuku’s four wives have died.

Ironically, the former MP has himself come off as a cultural maverick in the past for showing his preferred burial site and even preparing a coffin.

Some villagers in his rural Bungoma home have accused him of breaching tradition.

Mr Shikuku’s and Mr Jirongo’s support for polygamy is significant given that although many influential Kenyan men are known to marry more than one wife and maintain several mistresses, they rarely talk about it in public.

The existence or allegations of such relationships tend to come to the surface when a man dies with various women engaging in legal battles for control or a share of his property.

One of the ongoing tussles in court is over the property of former intelligence chief James Kanyotu who died in 2008. A woman who said she was Kanyotu’s second wife went to court to claim a piece of his estate.

The death of former Embakasi MP Melitus Mugabe in 2008 resulted in a battle for his property as well. Three women, all claiming to be his widows, went to court to lay claim to his property.

The first suit was filed jointly by two of the said widows, Maria Palma and Agnes Wairimu, while the second was filed by Diphrose Matengo and Mr Were’s siblings.

Property battles

The two widows of former Moyale MP Guracha Galgalo, who died in the 2006 Marsabit plane crash, also fought it out over their husband’s property before agreeing to an out-of-court settlement two years later.

However, polygamy has yet to find acceptance among religious leaders and advocacy groups who associate it with human rights abuses.

“If a man has equal access to five sexual partners, and a woman is only entitled to one, where is the equality in that?” asks the Rev Timothy Njoya.

“Sex is a right that should be given in equal proportions to the couple.”

The retired Presbyterian cleric says accepting polygamy as a way of life would reverse the gains made in human rights because women in such a relationship will not have the same privileges as the man.

“Show me any man who would be comfortable getting married to a woman with several other husbands. If we were to condone polygamy, we should also put up a fight to allow polyandry in our society,” he said.

The subject of wives and mistresses among prominent Kenyans has always been a thorny issue. President Kibaki had to call an afternoon press conference last year to clarify his marital status.

Despite the fact that he evolved into the prototype of an African Big Man exercising absolute power over the country, former president Daniel Moi was never seen in public with the mother of his children.

But first president Jomo Kenyatta seemed at peace with his three known wives. Mr Kenyatta’s youngest wife, Mama Ngina, took up the duties of First Lady.

Experts argue that polygamy is not only about having many wives who pamper their man. It speaks of a deeper social issue.

“It is a commentary on the mentality, aspirations and personality of a nation,” said , Father Dominic Wamugunda, a ERoman Catholic priest.

He says he is surprised that in the 21st century where the world’s traditions seem to have evolved to fit into accepted global norms, some societies still condone polygamy; a fact traditionalists oppose.

Patricia Nyaundi, the executive director of FIDA-Kenya, says polygamy is not only outdated, but it has also lost its original meaning.

“What men are attempting to pass off as polygamy is just multiple marriages. The importance their forefathers had for polygamy has disappeared and what remains is men collecting women for their own selfish reasons,” she said.

Decades ago, Mrs Nyaundi said, polygamy was an accepted social practice in which the man respected himself and all of his wives and understood each one’s role in the larger family.

“What reasons would one have to be a polygamist in the modern day where even self respect among some men is hard to come by? Plus it would take a lot of hard work from the man and his wives to make such a relationship work in this day and age,” says Mrs Nyaundi.

But the former Butere MP is of another view: “I run my marriage like a government. Women see things differently so, within my government, I have opposition too but, at the end of the day, we all get along.”

Pamela Masakhwi, a psychiatrist, says clamour for attention among women in a polygamous marriage may cause the women to lose self-esteem.

“Every woman wants to feel secure and demands her share of attention. If the man’s energies are divided amongst the other women, one is bound to feel short-changed as life will become a contest among the wives,” Ms Masakhwi said.

“In these times of inflation and HIV/Aids, a monogamous union makes more sense.”

Outspoken activist Orie Rogo-Manduli sees nothing wrong with polygamy. “In fact, it is more natural for men to be polygamous than to be monogamous,” says Ms Rogo-Manduli.

“I know a lot of single women who knowingly date married men and, if they were to be given the choice of being the man’s second wife, they would gladly agree.”

She says the only women who are opposed to polygamy are the hugely successful ones who might feel getting into such a union would mean that they share their hard-earned respect and income with their co-wives.

“Life gets messy when people deny it. There would be less quarrels, less family feuds and life would sail along smoothly if we accepted polygamy as part of us,” she says.

Mr Jirongo says polygamy might solve some of the common social problems faced by society.

“If you want another woman in your life, make it official. You’d be surprised at how accommodating women are. Issues such as illegitimate children and family wrangles after the man dies will be a thing of the past since all the wives know each other and what assets the man had,” says the Lugari MP.

His advice for those with only one wife but are secretly thinking of getting another one?

“You first have to consult with the oldest among them and make your intentions clear and talk about the position she will occupy in the new family. This shows you respect her,” he said.

The Bible

Mr Shikuku describes people who say polygamy is unChristian and churches that preach against multiple marriages as dishonest, citing the several polygamists mentioned in the Bible.

“No one other than God should pass judgement on another. He alone should decide what a sin consists of. I am a Christian and a polygamist too,” says Mr Shikuku.

Ms Manduli says it’s better to be polygamous, legally, than to be promiscuous, an argument that doesn’t sit well with some.

“If we base your actions on the wrongs of the minority, what example are we setting for the generations to come?” asked Fr Wamugunda.

Copyright 2010 The Nation.

Sad state of sex ed in Kenya

Cat | News | Thursday, December 24th, 2009

Kenya: Study Shows Young Women Would Rather Get Aids Than Fall Pregnant

Caroline Njung’e21 December 2009
Nairobi — When it comes to choosing emergency contraception, young Kenyan women trust their schoolmates. They also trust the chemist, the Internet and their boyfriends.

The only people they don’t trust are their parents.

One word explains why a 25-year-old woman we’ll call Jane lowers her face in shame when explaining why she had unprotected sex with a man she had known for only a month.

Trusted him

“I trusted him,” Jane says, averting her eyes and squirming uncomfortably in her seat. The next morning, the enormity of her decision sank in — what if she got pregnant? She was still in college and definitely not equipped to raise a child.

Her new boyfriend came up with the solution — “Just swallow the ‘morning-after pill’ and you will have nothing to worry about,” he advised, even offering to dash to the chemist for her.

For Jane, the suggestion to use emergency contraception proved a “magic bullet” of sorts.

“Since I did not get pregnant that first time, I continued using the E-pill each time I had unprotected sex, which was at least once a week, convinced that I could not get pregnant,” she recalls.

A month later, however, that “magic bullet” took a wrong turn. Jane’s worst fear came to pass — she was pregnant and devastated.

“I just wasn’t ready to handle a pregnancy or worse, become someone’s mother. There was still so much that I wanted to do, so much that I wanted to accomplish…” Jane says, her voice trailing off.

Jane could easily speak for thousands of young women throughout Kenya.

Pick any 10 in the streets of Nairobi, and at least half admit to having unprotected sex — regularly. They will also tell you they don’t ask their partners about their sexual history, and that they use the E-pill far more often than is recommended.

That’s what the Nation found during an interview for this feature with 10 women between the ages of 19 and 27 years. Far from embodying the non-religious, immoral stereotype, these women were either in college or university, or employed in white-collar jobs.

Overwhelmingly, this group is likely to attribute their risky sexual behaviour to trust — the trust they place on boyfriends to shun sexual partners outside their relationship.

In the same breath, they claim strong awareness of the deadly risk posed by sexually transmitted diseases. These women say they’ve investigated various options for preventing pregnancy, yet place absolute trust in the relatively new E-pill as their contraceptive of choice.

In short, it would seem, these women at the peak of their reproductive years would rather face death, or long term complications of E-pill usage, than the condemnation or rejection from family, church leaders, or community resulting from pregnancy.

“My parents would probably kick me out should they find out that I’m sexually active, so I don’t even want to imagine their reaction should I get pregnant today,” says Sheila, a 22-year-old who is about to graduate from college.

This response confirms past Population Council research findings which indicate that fear of pregnancy outweighs fear of contracting the HIV virus among E-pill users — 79 per cent cited pregnancy as their biggest fear, while only 45 per cent thought they were at risk of contracting HIV through unprotected sex.

Contraception users

A 2007 research by Population Services International (PSI) indicates 69 per cent of E-pill users had either college or university-level education, while 59 per cent were employed.

Overall, 64 per cent of users were married, cohabiting or single but in a steady relationship. These findings dispel the notion that adolescents or the promiscuous are the majority of emergency contraception users.

But is death a less tangible concept for these educated, employed young women than pregnancy? The answer, one expert says, may just shock the people most responsible for moulding a young woman’s sense of self.

According to Wanjiku Gikang’a, a family therapist and university lecturer, parents are largely to blame for the shockingly casual approach young women adopt towards unprotected sex.

“Today’s parents think that their duty is done once they provide material support for their children — but they end up neglecting an even more important area — the emotional well-being of their children.”

“Young unmarried women would rather seek an abortion than let their parents know that they’re pregnant,” says Gikang’a.

She cites a case she is privy to, that of a young woman who took the more drastic step of procuring an abortion than confide in her parents that she was pregnant.

“She was suicidal by the time she sought help since the mental torture she experienced after the abortion was just too much to handle.”

Gikang’a says most parents expect, even demand, that young women make wise sexual choices, with little or no guidance.

The result, she explains, is a generation that grows up devoid of self-esteem, even though highly-educated and self-sufficient. It seems logical that they could be persuaded to have unprotected sex with someone whose sexual history is unknown to them. Parents don’t realise that true self-esteem is fuelled by information.

“A young woman who has been raised with self-esteem would think twice before doing anything that will jeopardise her health; she would be empowered to look beyond just getting pregnant,” Gikang’a says.

Dr. Marsden Solomon, the Reproductive Health Regional Medical Advisor for Family Health International, says that for the sexually uninformed young woman, the social, economic, the psychological and moral repercussions of pregnancy seem easier to dodge.

“Unlike a sexually transmitted disease, pregnancy cannot be hidden; it is a visible consequence and demonstration of a sexual act and for the unmarried girl in our society, the shame that accompanies it is heavy,” says Dr Solomon.

But young woman might be more willing to gamble on hiding symptoms of HIV or STD’s for years. After all, even people who contract HIV can live for decades with ARV’s, proper nutrition and counselling.

Besides trust, the young women interviewed for this feature also cited pressure from their boyfriends to engage in unprotected sex.

“Most men question your faithfulness and love for them if you insist on using a condom, so we end up giving in to unprotected sex to prove that we’re not seeing anyone else,” said Mary, a 21-year-old student at a city college. She has been using the E-pill to prevent pregnancy at least twice a month for the past one year.

“Men also argue that the relationship isn’t close enough when we insist on using protection,” said Christine, a 25-year-old accountant who started having unprotected sex with her current boyfriend three months after they started dating. They have been together for six months but are yet to visit a VCT centre to have their status checked. She, too regularly pops the E-pill to prevent pregnancy.

Only two of the women assembled by the Nation had done more than cursory Internet research into the emergency contraception pill. What’s most startling is that those who haven’t had a “failure” — a pregnancy — don’t believe they are abusing the E-pill. They think it is easier to use and safer than other methods of birth control.

But the Ministry of Health’s Family Planning Guidelines for Service Providers, as well as the World Health Organisation, emphasise that emergency contraception should only be used as a backup method in emergencies and not as a regular method of family planning because it is not as reliable. In fact, using the E-pill on a monthly basis points to misuse and heightens the risk of pregnancy.

The E-pill has a pregnancy prevention rate of 88 per cent when taken within 120 hours after unprotected sex, compared to the 99.78 per cent protection that other hormonal methods offer. What’s more, the E-pill’s ability to prevent pregnancy diminishes with regular use because it contains a much higher dose of hormones than regular contraceptive methods.

So far, there are no documented health risks from frequent E-pill usage. But the ripple effects are far-reaching. As Dr. Solomon points out, you might succeed in preventing an unwanted pregnancy for a while, but might repeatedly expose yourself to the HIV virus and STD’s such as gonorrhoea and Chlamydia, which have a devastating effect on a woman’s reproductive organs.

“These two STD’s damage the fallopian tubes where conception takes place, leading to infertility,” Dr. Solomon explains.

In a conservative society like Kenya’s, childlessness attracts harsh social and cultural judgment. Young women should also consider the increased possibility of seeking an unsafe abortion, which could result in long-term complications or death.

Despite these sobering facts, many young women still don’t embrace common family planning contraception methods, due to myriad myths and misinformation.

For instance, a 2008 study by Population Council found that 57 per cent of the women who used the E-pill believed that it was not possible to become pregnant after using the emergency contraceptive.

This group also believes that regular family planning methods, such as the combined oral contraceptive pill, injectables and implants, are for married people who do not want any more children.

“A friend told me that they (implants and injectables) cause infertility and permanent varicose veins when used over a long period,” said 23-year-old Faith, an actress with a local theatre group.

For most of the youngest E-pill users, informal networks (friends and relatives) appear to be the main source of information on emergency contraception. But it’s almost guaranteed that no one in that network is a responsible, informed adult. Ironically, young people themselves are clamouring for change in that regard.

A recent study by the Centre for the Study of Adolescence revealed that, nearly 65 per cent want to receive sex education in school. They also want their parents involved in forums where sexual heath is discussed.

“Our parents know that we’re having sex, but they don’t talk to us about it. Yet when we get pregnant or when a friend does, they are embarrassed and angry and blame us for not-knowing better,” says Beatrice, a 22-year-old who was 16 when she first heard about the E-pill.

And 26-year-old Angela, who became pregnant in her second year in college, wished that parents could open up and talk to them about sex candidly, instead of cautioning them about “playing with boys” or flatly condemning sex.

Taboo subject

“Right from our homes, to learning institutions as well as the church, sex is a taboo subject, and when young people talk about it, they’re branded immoral,” echoes 21-year-old Sylvia.

In short, the women who spoke to the Nation painted a clear picture of why it’s frighteningly easy to trust a man you met a month ago, who advises you to take a pill you really don’t know much about, to prevent a situation that will force a painful conversation with the very people who should have your best interest at heart.

And there is only one remedy, family therapist Gikang’a says. Accurate, thorough information — from the very first people we trust in life.

“Sex is still taboo in our society, yet the irony is that we cannot divorce it from our daily lives — the fact is that our children are having it. Let’s empower them to make the right choices by talking to them about it and let’s let them know that they can confide in us about anything because we’ll support them — this is what unconditional love is all about.”

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